Friday, April 3, 2009

Where are the girlfriends?

They say that a good wife is more precious than gold, but I say that a good girlfriend (we are talking here about friendships among women)is better than gold, better than diamonds! I had my share of fake, or wrong girlfriends; and I am sick and tired of it! I am trimming to make fresher and healthier my little "living room" plant of friends. Therefore, fall off and away with:

1- Friends who think that the best lesson in teaching you not to judge, is to constantly wish you the outcome of the very thing you are judging. (Who never judge?)

2- Friends who say any hurtful things in the name of exercising "free speech", or as a payback.

3- Friends who can't handle inner conflicting issues, but blame you for embodying them.

4- Friends who are negative

5- Friends who are too insecure, and unconsciously resent you for being confident

6- Friends you still have to fight to trust, event after knowing them awhile

7- Friends who compete with you